If men don’t have to be aggressive, women won’t be compelled to be submissive. If men don’t need to control, women won’t have to be controlled. Both men and women should feel free to be strong. It is time that we all see gender as a spectrum instead of two sets of opposing ideals. We should stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by who we are.
I feel like young girls are told, I don’t know, that they have to be this kind of princess and fragile. It’s bullshit. You’ve got to be.. I identify much more with being a warrior, a fighter. If I was going to be a princess I’d be a warrior princess definitely. There’s nothing wrong with being afraid. It’s not the absence of fear, it’s overcoming it. Sometimes you’ve got to blast through and have faith.
I’m lucky I was raised to believe that my opinion at the dinner table was valuable. My mum and I spoke as loudly as my brothers.
Becoming yourself is really hard and confusing, and it’s a process. It’s often not cool to be the person who puts themselves out there.